Strangers, Friends, Best Friends, Sisters, Friends, Enemies, Friends, Acquaintances, Strangers, Fake Friends, Lost connection.

It seems to be a cycle that some girls go through in friendships to become stronger. You start out as being introduced as friends then you click. Become inseparable, do everything together and then… become replaced. By that boyfriend or other best friend. Friendships aren’t always as perfect as the movies make them out to be. Knowing that person for a long time does not mean they’ll be with you for the rest of the time. Those are your expectations that you have on that person, which is not good to have. Remember, they are human and they will let you down. I was scrolling one day through the lovely website, pinterest, and came across this quote. “ You have to let people go. Everyone who is in your life are meant to be in your journey, but not all of them are meant to stay till the end.” That quote could not be truer! You go through many seasons in your lifetime, and some friends will come with those seasons too. However they might be relevant for those seasons, but not your whole journey. Yes it is painful to lose friends, especially best friends but if they aren’t uplifting, positive edifying friends, there’s no point anymore. As I came across another inspirational quote, “ I no longer have the energy for meaningless friendships, forced interactions or unnecessary conversations.” If it causes you unnecessary stress, why put that on yourself, when you have the choice to keep a friend or leave a friend. It is good to be selfish, especially when it comes to your own happiness. It’s a new season and almost a new week, do a friendventory for you and see what comes out of it. You may not see the results immediately, but later on you will thank yourself for making the positive choices that made you that much happier (:


Big City Dreamer


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